Today, I had a deep and relieving conversation with one of my best friends about relationships, and what they mean. In American society, relationships have turned into a game, with no meaning or relevance to what they were 20 years ago. You see the whores and jocks walk up and down the hallway talking their brains away about sex, sex, and sex. Relationships are nothing but "friends with benefits" and the occasional drama. Nothing like they should be.
I was looking up at a star tonight, as I talked to my dear friend about all of this, and I had a thought about how the world works as a whole, also in relation to smaller things. When I looked at the star, I thought about how that star has been doing its job the same way for millions of years, and if it wasn't than it would harm others, and maybe even itself. This should be how everything works. Sure, it can change things here and there, that help others without destroying the order of life and death. Earth has changed everything to the point where we think we are helping everything and everyone, but in the long run, we are killing ourselves. We are destroying the true meaning of a relationship.
The love and connection between partners today is invisible. Most will deny, or think that their "love" is real, but it's really lust, and they think that they have a large connection. Truth is, is that your connection is physical. Everything is physically driven these days. "You're beautiful" has become a saying relating to physical beauty, instead of the internal beauty that truly should be the heart and soul of the relationship. You should feel sad when your partner leaves the room. You should be reminded everyday of why you are together, and you should subconsciously feel safe, and no regret telling them anything. This, my friends, is a real relationship.
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